FEEDBACKS FROM PAST PARTICIPANTS

#MyClarityChallengeExperience

I am a participant in The Clarity Challenge a #52 days Training on Decisiveness organized by MASON IB. WEST and The LoveLife Institute on WhatsApp. Today is day #38 and this is my honest assessment.

God had an intention when he created the marriage union. That intention is what guarantees maximum fulfilment and settlement. When the purpose of a thing is not known, abuse is inevitable. The sanctity of relationships and the Marriage union has been largely abused because the original purpose is not known on a grand scale.

The purpose of the clarity challenge is to restore our sense of Purpose. At the love life institute, we are asked critical questions that seek(s) to vet the precision of our choice of Love interest.

We receive daily dares that enable us improve our love expressions and learn new ways of communicating our affections effectively. Everyday we recieve a coincise body of knowledge that gives us a better understanding of how to love and be loved effectively.

Whether you’re on the lookout for a redress or a more effective way to love your partner, The LoveLife Institute and The Clarity Challenge is and will always give you these and more.

I recommend LoveLife institute and the Clarity Challenge because they have a track record of success and a standard of excellence. I have indeed benefited immensely and still am currently.

ARC. NOBLE SHADRACH
(Port Harcourt, Nigeria)

#MyClarityChallengeExperience

It’s really been an awesome experience. I travel a lot and most of the dares meet me in motion. There was a day I traveled to Ekiti State and one of the dares met me there and I was like Oh Jesus! I reached Ekiti State very late. That was one of the days I submitted very late. I had to rush it up. These Dares have met me in about 6 States because I travel a lot and since I drive myself it’s quiet easier.

It’s been hectic trying to meet up but it’s really been an awesome experience because over the last few weeks I’ve learnt a lot. I have discovered a whole lot.

There were many things I didn’t necessarily prioritize but I started realizing they we’re really important.

I started realizing that if I go into a marital Union without Sorting out certain reservations, they might frustrate me for the rest of my life. Those where the kind of things we worked on and tried to adjust.

It really has being an awesome experience.It has been revealing.It has been educating.

It will help you to build your LoveLife in massive ways. In ways you can’t imagine and truly speaking, I have this belief that some people who are not meant to be together when they come across this platform they will realize it because many of the questions have a way of cracking your brain, it has a way of making you realize whether you are meant to be together with your partner.It has a way of making you go the extra mile to adjust certain things to ensure that your relationship has a smooth and very interesting sail.

All thanks to MASON IB. WEST.

We’re not really done with The Challenge yet but I can really see a lot of adjustment, there has been a whole lot of learning.

I started realizing a whole lot about myself that I didn’t know was present. When he asks certain questions, I will have to ask myself the questions first before going to answer it on the platform.

It’s been a journey of realization. Its been massive and I want to say a very big thanks to MASON IB. WEST.

This is really a life saving experience because as the day goes by the marital institution has been under a major threat; I really used to be scared that in many years to come if we are not careful Marriage will entirely become a contract; people will just enter and come out anyhow and this is one of the moves that God is actually pushing forth to save the right values in relationships and in marriage.

Thank you so much sir

Much love and appreciation

VICTOR OLADIJA GABRIEL
(Kaduna, Nigeria)

#MyClarityChallengeExperience

• How did I even get into this challenge? Hmmm
• Pastor IB West has been one big senior friend (wait! sir, shey we are friends? Because, I’m not even sure if I should call you pastor. _That name too serious_ ) and yes! He got this little me into the challenge even if _I no reach una class. _Who are me na?_ _See big big aunties and uncles upandan._

• My experience so far
• It’s been awemazing!!! I mean, every single part of it! It’s really making me think. I get to wonder how these model couples can just be this cool and imagine being in their shoes.

Getting to run down here every single day for these past 29 days hasn’t been funny tho. No matter how busy the day gets, I feel there’s something I’m missing when I haven’t peeped into this group!

Although, it’s been really demanding! But you know, we must all pay the price for knowledge… It can’t be totally convenient.

I love the brain work! Trust me! It’s so cool to see that there are some questions that seem irrelevant but boy! How important they all are in a relationship.

No jokes, I’m taking note of some of these questions so I get to ask Mr. Uncle , just Incase there’s no Clarity Challenge in my time.

• Value? Mehn! I’m so full of light! Any relationship I get into cannot know any silly mistakes. I take charge of my love life.
•Yes! You’re in a relationship and you’re not in the *LoveLife Institute*, sweetheart, you’re on a long thing! Trust me, this is the best place to be! ~And~ ~find~ ~man~ Aiii! Who pinch me

ANOINTING JUSTICE (AJ)
(Port Harcourt, Nigeria)

#MyClarityChallengeExperience

I am a participant in The Clarity Challenge 2.0, a #52 Day Training in Decisiveness organized by Mason IB West and The LoveLife Institute on WhatsApp and Facebook. Today is Day#39 and this has been my experience so far.

Courtship is about knowing a potential spouse. Knowing comes with getting sincere answers to questions asked. This brings about CLARITY

If this be the case, then one can say that if all the questions that have been asked so far in this Challenge are compiled and asked to a would be partner, the period of courting them can reduce by almost 70% !

Therefore aside writing a book I’m wondering if the facilitator of this: KLARITY SHALLENGE, Mason IB West would consider writing a pamphlet titled:

“… Before you say: ‘I DO’; the QUESTIONS you should ask”

This pamphlet should be a compilation of all the QUESTIONS in all the KLARITY SHALLENGES.

That’s by the way.

…and so participating in this Challenge has helped me to redefine marriage…

Which I once defined as:
“the adventure of two ‘love birds’ into an unknown destination”

However, my participation in this Challenge has changed this perspective

…and so the initial perspective was like going into marriage is like entering a black box.

You don’t know what comes out of it…

However, with the kind of grilling Questions that are being asked in this Challenge… With honest response one can know exactly the direction one is heading to.

The Questions provokes the need for open minded answers…

With these answers CLARITY is gained…

When CLARITY is gained, PATHS ARE ILLUMINATED!

… and the black box concept fades into thin air.

Thanks to the Facilitator and The LoveLife Institute for putting Up this.

GODWIN IGBAPIKE
The Clarity Challenge 2.0
Port Harcourt, Nigeria

#MyClarityChallengeExperience

I am a participant in The Clarity Challenge 2.0, a #52 Day Training on Decisiveness organized by MASON IB. WEST and The LoveLife Institute on WhatsApp and Facebook. Today is Day#35 and this is my honest assessment.

I got into the challenge with my partner as model couple. My major reason for convincing my partner to join the challenge was because I needed to improve everything about my relationship. The Clarity Challenge has indeed created amazing results in my relationship for the past 35 days. I have a better understanding of my partner, our Lovelife has been unified.

The Clarity Challenge focuses not only on bringing light into your relationship, but it cuts across every aspect of life.

My being a participant in this challenge had earned me clarity in:

1. MY RELATIONSHIP:
You know how to manage your partners weakness and to build on their strength.

2. PURPOSE WISE:
I have been able to develope a more clear, simple but yet formidable vision and core value.

From what we learnt from the challenge, we have been able to develope our core values to be To create an atmosphere of
• LOVE,
• HARMONY,
• PEACE,
• FORGIVENESS
• FRIENDLINESS

3. FINANCIALLY:
We have been taught how to handle money matters in our home,

I have also learnt how to relate and deal with inlaws.

I would sure endorse The Clarity challenge for anyone who wants bliss and satisfaction in marriage, and relationship; the only and one place to stop by before you finally move to the altar.

We have weekly tasks and daily Dares which have really made the challenge very fascinating,

The Dares are really daring, you are forced to bring out time for proper research before you attempt them.

My Experience in The Clarity Challenge has been wonderful that I can’t write out all I have benefited,

Finally I would say this challenge is an opportunity God gave to the youth of this generation, one that our fathers never had. This challenge has been satisfying , this challenge has be amazing, its been superb, its be everything!!!

OLYVA B NWEBEDU
Model Couple 02 TCC 2.0
(Port Harcourt, Nigeria)

#MyClarityChallengeExperience

The clarity challenge platform is really a place to be; a place where you learn things about your relationship and life generally. It’s really been an awesome one for the past 35 days. I have a better and clearer understanding of my partner, our Lovelife has been awesome for these few days and it has come to stay.

The beautiful thing about The Clarity Challenge is it focuses not only on bringing light and sweetness into your relationship, but improving you as a person for a better relationship life.

The level of our communication these few days have really been the best so far since we started, and to be honest I am enjoying my relationship and please permit me to say to the fullest.

Personally I have learnt how to communicate and express myself without anger, modelling what I desire in love and harmony, being kind and peaceful.

I have learnt how to manage the weakness of my partner and building on his strength without issues.

Now I can boldly say I have more clarity in My Relationship, Purpose wise and how to prioritize my emotions and controlling it

To this end, I endorse The Clarity Challenge for every home, relationship, marriage(ship), friendship, courtship who need sweetness, peace, love. The Clarity challenge is the best place to be, and please, no procrastination. Its a Love family to belong #TheLovelifeinstitute

ANGEL-EMEM OLYVA
Model couple 002 Female TCC 2.0
(Port Harcourt, Nigeria)

#MyClarityChallengeExperience

Hmmmm, I must say the experience has been scintillating, captivating, exhilarating and motivating.I’ve learnt so many things here. The one that stands out more is learning to accept criticism (constructive) as a part of developmental strategy, team work as a key for inclusion and mobilization.

The facilitator, MASON IB. WEST has taught me these without even saying a single word about them. Honestly, I do my best to try to listen to the teachings, but the bulk of my learning comes from unspoken, well acted leadership style displayed by him. I learn more practically than by any other means. Till today, I find it hard to write notes in church. When a preacher is preaching, I look for one thing that sticks out to me and click my “accept and apply “ button.

VICTOR NASARA MAGAJI
(Abuja, Nigeria)

#MyClarityChallengeExperience

The Clarity challenge is a platform to learn and unlearn what you have known and what you’re to know about your partner and intending partner. This is where anyone can get knowledge to build oneself from. Like it’s said no knowledge is a waste. I will encourage anyone who is ready to learn and unlearn to be part of it.

So far, I have benefited a lot from The Clarity challenge and the live sessions on Facebook so far. It has been an amazing experience for me and my partner.

Some of the benefits.

● HOW TO MANAGE EMOTIONS.
One can not control his/her emotions except one is willing to do so. And that is what I have been able to achieve in the clarity challenge group.

● TO KNOW MY CORE-VALUES.
What I want in the relationship and how I intend to achieve that. And what I should be expecting in the future.

● TO ACKNOWLEDGE MY WEAKNESS AND MY STRENGTH.
This is very important area to figure out which The Clarity Challenge has helped me to figure. And how to overcome them and improve on them.

● HOW TO HANDLE CONFLICTS WITHOUT MORE CONFLICTS.
One must learn how to handle conflicts in a relationship and marriage without digging up other conflicts in between the lines.

● HOW TO MANAGE FINANCE AND IN-LAWS.
This is one area which really need a big clarity. The area of finance and in-laws is been properly discussed in The cla5rity Challenge. One have to take proper planning and consideration before handling it.

● HOME MANAGEMENT.
If any home is not properly manange, there can never be peace in such home. The Clarity Challenge platform has also made me to understand how to handle it.

The daily tasks and Dares are so mind blowing and also give deep thoughts on how to answer them. Which has also given me more insight about myself and my partner. Yes at time it can be challenging and stressful but one have to do to know how well you have known the other person or what your looking in the other person.

Distance is not an excuse to prove to your partner how much they mean to you. Where you have to go all out to prove to them how much they mean to you

The Clarity Challenge has been so helpful to me.

Engr. Biokpo Lawrence
Model Couple 1 Male TCC.0.2
(Port Harcourt, Nigeria)

#MyClarityChallengeExperience

“Thank You” for putting together the clarity Challenge. Yes, personal vicissitudes impeded my effective participation in the challenge, yet, just hanging around opened my eyes to a lot of things associated with the relationship of opposite sex. Am really very grateful Sir and I pray that you majestically step into the next level of life you desire. Congratulations on the success of The Clarity Challenge so far

ISAAC STEPHEN PETER
(Port Harcourt, Nigeria)

#MyClarityChallengeExperience

Thank you for Reshaping my love and relationship life. You are indeed a mentor and I pray for greater wisdom.

I must confess that you’re a mentor and good counselor. Thank you so much.

I pray for more of God’s divine wisdom and knowledge.

You have impacted so much on me and many people on the platform.

Thank you sir.

ROSE DANIEL
The Clarity Challenge 2.0

#MyClarityChallengeExperience

WHAT IS IT THAT THE CLARITY CHALLENGE HAS HELPED YOU ACHIEVE?

As the name goes, Clarity, it has realm given clarity about what relationship is, how it should be done to please God and how it is the bedrock to a successful marriage life.

It has increased my trust level: with how so open and non secretive the dares are, I’m able to see through the mind of my partner.

It has helped me set #realistic boundaries and limits and how they can help even during marriage

The communication skill between us has greatly improved. We can share how we feel without hiding anything.

It has also helped us to understand that who you love, you can do anything for in the right way.

It has also cleared that healthy Christian relationships exist

It has made us become vulnerable to each other and that is the true essence of love.

We’ve also learnt the difference between sex and love making. The classes are awesome.

If you’re a Christian looking for how you can make it right in relationship, how to stay pure, how to get ready for marriage, then #Thelovelifeinstitute is your go to for such healthy Christian tips.

WHAT GREY AREAS HAS IT EXPOSED FOR BOTH OF YOU?

It exposed how uptight and really not vulnerable we were to ourselves

WHAT NEW PROBLEM HAS IT CREATED FOR YOU THAT YOU MAY OR MAY NOT HAVE SOLVED?

Seeing how uptight and not knowing the miles each of us could go for each other at first, there was a resistance. Like, why should I do this task or not. But thank God for clarity. We have better understanding. If it’s for your partner, do it as their happiness is also yours.

WHAT ARE THE AREAS YOU ARE DOING VERY WELL AS A COUPLE?

In our communication and commitment. We are more committed because we now communicate our feelings expressively.

WHAT ARE THE AREAS YOU STILL STRUGGLE WITH AND NEED HELP (WEAKNESS)?

I need help in being bold to express my feelings without fear. Also need help in being committed to my business

WHAT STEPS ARE YOU TAKING IN YOUR AREA OF STRUGGLE?

I’m still trying to be bold. Coming out of shell. About my business I’m restrategizing and figuring out new ways to make it better. Praying as never before.

BRIDGET JACKREECE
Female Model Couple 01 TCC2.0
(Ibadan, Nigeria)